Have you meet a certain person and find him/her attractive and you get interested on knowing him/her? So spend many days and nights thinking about that person and you can't get rid him/her out of your mind? You came to the point that you confess to your self that your falling in love with that certain person?
What if that person is committed? He/she is on a relationship with another person? What would you do? Would you still fall for him/her? What if the other guy tells you that he too is falling for you though he is committed? What would you do? Would you tolerate him and don't care what will happen as long as you are happy?
These are normal situation that a teenager faces today, they tend to fall in love with a person committed to each other. Here comes the feeling of anger towards the partner and you wish that they broke up in order for you to be with the guy. Or there are instance that you choose to be with the person even if he is committed and you end up in a love triangle. You are not committed to each other but you hang with each other all the times and you exchange endearments, ILOVEYOU's, even you hug ad kiss each other.
I know that they say that men are natural polygamous (Relating to, characterized by, or practicing polygamy.) A person having more than one partner. For married couple this is called adultery. They say that your partner could only give 90% of the love and attention you wanted. When you starting to look for that remaining 10% you could find it on the other person that's why some people tend to have other girls/boys in order to fill that lacking 10%. But can you sacrifice all the times that you are together for just that lacking 10%? You neglect that 90% just for that lacking 10%? Why not fill that lacking 10% with the time you've been together, the good times and bad times you went through together. The lacking 10% percent is a just a number very minimal to the relationship you have with your partner. Nobody's perfect and a relationship is ever been perfect. There would be ups and downs in a girl-boy relationship you have to face that.
What if that person is committed? He/she is on a relationship with another person? What would you do? Would you still fall for him/her? What if the other guy tells you that he too is falling for you though he is committed? What would you do? Would you tolerate him and don't care what will happen as long as you are happy?
These are normal situation that a teenager faces today, they tend to fall in love with a person committed to each other. Here comes the feeling of anger towards the partner and you wish that they broke up in order for you to be with the guy. Or there are instance that you choose to be with the person even if he is committed and you end up in a love triangle. You are not committed to each other but you hang with each other all the times and you exchange endearments, ILOVEYOU's, even you hug ad kiss each other.
I know that they say that men are natural polygamous (Relating to, characterized by, or practicing polygamy.) A person having more than one partner. For married couple this is called adultery. They say that your partner could only give 90% of the love and attention you wanted. When you starting to look for that remaining 10% you could find it on the other person that's why some people tend to have other girls/boys in order to fill that lacking 10%. But can you sacrifice all the times that you are together for just that lacking 10%? You neglect that 90% just for that lacking 10%? Why not fill that lacking 10% with the time you've been together, the good times and bad times you went through together. The lacking 10% percent is a just a number very minimal to the relationship you have with your partner. Nobody's perfect and a relationship is ever been perfect. There would be ups and downs in a girl-boy relationship you have to face that.
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